Why do couples grow apart?
One fundamental reason is this: Women will marry the man she feels he can become, so she expects him to change and grow into that person. Men on the other hand marry the woman he wanted and so he...
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Successful Marriages Don’t Just Happen…
Couples with problems all suffer from the same basic challenge. You see if a marriage is to survive then the focus of the individuals has to change. Take a moment and think about the type of...
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If we split up are we making a mistake?
Who Have I Become? This is a significant worry that just prolongs the agony of staying in a relationship that feels wrong. I also see too many people regret their decision to leave their partner, so if...
View ArticleMarriage Tip One: Be Aware That Your Mind Will Grow Whatever You Feed It?
Whatever you feed your mind will come true. You will become what you think most about. This law is universal and in relationships it’s very obvious to see. Follow the words below and see how you can...
View ArticleIf Your Marriage Looks Like It’s Ending What Do You Do?
If one person thinks the marriage is over and the other disagrees, what do you do? This couple from Manchester, Brian and Christine share their personal story of trauma and their courage to discover...
View ArticleIf you’re willing to change your thinking you can change your life
If you are not getting results in your life that you want then it’s a great idea to ask why? The easy route is to put blame on external factors, my partner is not right for me, I don’t have enough...
View ArticleWhere do our emotions come from and can we control them?
The short answer to this question is we create our emotions and yes we can control them if you want to. I know many of the skeptics will now want proof, so I will do my best to explain in this post....
View ArticleShould you leave your marriage?
If anyone is asking this question then clearly it’s time to start taking action. No one should be in a relationship that helps them to feel consistently bad ever! So what should you do? The first step...
View ArticleHow To Save Your Marriage Alone!
If you want your marriage to work and your partner won’t seek help what do you do? This post is about how to save your marriage alone. How you can make a difference in your relationship even if your...
View ArticleMarriage reconciliation: Can a marriage with years of problems be saved?
Marriage Reconciliation is it possible really? Well those that have been reading my posts for a while now will know my answer. Why? Because I see it every day in my practice. BUT today I’m going to...
View ArticlePart two: How to save a marriage from divorce
Welcome to step two in my how to save a marriage from divorce series. Step two: Save Your Marriage From Divorce The second step is to help the individuals grasp how by changing focus from loving their...
View ArticleA small shift of focus created a different world for her.
Knowing how to repair a relationship when it goes wrong is critical for any couples survival and is the responsibility of both people in the relationship. To do this you have to understand your...
View ArticleI have tried but I know he/she will never change
In yesterdays post I asked you to look after your relationship. I wonder how many of you put those words into action? My guess is only a few, if you are one of them I congratulate you. If you didn’t...
View ArticleThe decision to leave a marriage can happen in a moment
Individuals in relationships / marriages are silently making decisions across the country that are totally changing the direction of the couples lives forever. These decisions are very powerful and can...
View ArticleFix your relationship with one small easy change that anyone can do…
What if one small change could make all the difference to your marriage and could save it from months or years of problems. What if there is one small change we could all make to keep our relationships...
View ArticleOne thought that could change your life
One of the reasons I set up this free information about relationship problems was I because many people struggled to know where to put their energy when problems strike their relationships. I do get...
View ArticleCouple learn the truth about their relationship so they can decide if staying...
I have just finished another Marriage Profiling Program with a couple. The journey was intense, but fascinating as the couple started to learn about why they had been struggling for so many years and...
View ArticleShould we divorce or should we stay together?
Perfectly reasonable question for couples who are struggling to see eye-to-eye especially if the challenge has gone on for long enough, or a sudden breach of trust has put the relationship into...
View ArticleDoes your partner want a divorce and you want to save your marriage?
If your partner wants a divorce and you don’t agree it’s the right solution to your problems it’s critical to understand what has brought them to this point. In terms of behaviour and communication the...
View ArticleCan one person save a marriage from divorce?
When a person makes changes in themselves they affect how the other person responds. If the changes help their partner to feel secure, loved and wanted in the way they need, then a change in the...
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